I have commed with Tony in the past. This video upsets me very much because it is quite observant that Tony is experiencing a great deal of stress and pain, while choosing his words very clearly, so not to cause any problems between Tony, Sue, and their daughter, and those in Scientology, that are clearly dictating to her, the terms in which she is being allowed "to leave" Scientology.
I'm also very suspicious as to the reasoning behind Tony's requests for people to remove past comments & remarks from the boards about his daughter being held captive by Scientology - it's clear to me she is still being held captive to the whims of leaders in UK Scientology, and it's clear to me listening to and watching Tony's reactions, he is not at all comfortable with making this video or making these requests.
A person freely leaving Scientology with no strings attached, does not make demands on or obligate loved ones to do anything to earn their love or support. However, the bottom line is that Tony & Sue love their daughter very much and their relationship with their daughter is paramount to them. That is quite understandable & appreciated.
Just hope & S don't throw all those people that have supported them along the way, in re-connecting to their daughter, under the bus in doing so.