Magoo
Gold Meritorious Patron
HEALING
It takes quite a bit of time to heal from something as huge as leaving a cult.
For those of us who were in longer, the process often is even longer.
I've found healing to be one of THE happiest times of my life.
Today a critic, someone who often picks at me, wrote me the kindest
PM. Why? They had some trouble, and I took the time to try to help them.
Did I have to? No, not at all. Did they have to thank me? Again, not at all.
But as I wrote my response, I felt myself sigh a big sigh----it's a great feeling: HEALING. And I was happy for them, as well as for me.
I knew we were both better for letting *some* of our disagreements go,
and finding a common ground.
Healing isn't something that happens over night..it takes time, it takes
growing, it takes letting go.
When I FIRST began posting, EVERY TIME I'D HIT THE "SEND" Button,
I could feel some Junk blow off, and a little bit of healing happening.
If you haven't felt much, try digging in and telling some of your story--
it's a great way to get it out, and once out, the healing begins. :
Happy Friday, and thanks to the person who PM'd me, as well as to ALL the many people who have helped me over the years, including ALL of the x-Scientologists and critics both.
Tory/Magoo~~~
It takes quite a bit of time to heal from something as huge as leaving a cult.
For those of us who were in longer, the process often is even longer.
I've found healing to be one of THE happiest times of my life.
Today a critic, someone who often picks at me, wrote me the kindest
PM. Why? They had some trouble, and I took the time to try to help them.
Did I have to? No, not at all. Did they have to thank me? Again, not at all.
But as I wrote my response, I felt myself sigh a big sigh----it's a great feeling: HEALING. And I was happy for them, as well as for me.
I knew we were both better for letting *some* of our disagreements go,
and finding a common ground.
Healing isn't something that happens over night..it takes time, it takes
growing, it takes letting go.
When I FIRST began posting, EVERY TIME I'D HIT THE "SEND" Button,
I could feel some Junk blow off, and a little bit of healing happening.
If you haven't felt much, try digging in and telling some of your story--
it's a great way to get it out, and once out, the healing begins. :
Happy Friday, and thanks to the person who PM'd me, as well as to ALL the many people who have helped me over the years, including ALL of the x-Scientologists and critics both.
Tory/Magoo~~~