Thank you all so very much for the advice, the love, support and prayers. I am still trying to sort through things in my mind. My husband also thinks that I should contact her. He also feels that I should not offer one of my kidney's.
Even though this occurrence was inevitable due to the way the disease progresses, I had always thought it would happen much later in her life. So I am just in shock right now.
If I do make contact with her, I will let you all know how it goes.
Love,
Melanie