Hi. I found your board looking for advice. A loved one has started going to "emotional clearing" sessions, and I recently noticed a copy of Dianetics in the house. I think I know where this leads, and I don't like it. I've read a bit about these subjects online, including a few personal accounts. Also, the links in the sticky in this forum are good, will spend more time with them. However, most of the resources seem to be for those who have gotten deeper or been in longer. Also, I don't see much about what family can do.
So, my question is- are there resources out there on how to help someone get out, before they get too deep?
Thanks!
Suggest talking to your loved one to determine just how deeply he's involved.
It may just be a passing interest.
If it's more than that, advise him not to give Scientology Inc. large sums of money.
Suggest that he wait and do some more reading.
Dianetics is an imperfect subject that can sometimes provide "wins," but the goal of Dianetics, which is Clear, has never been attained - even though watered down "states of Clear" are still being sold.
Suggest reading the (1987, 1992, 1996) book, 'L. Ron Hubbard, Messiah or Madman?'
If your loved one has descended deeply enough into Scientology Inc., then you're going to have to be patient and gentle. Telling him that everything he's come to believe (in Dianetics) as true, is really false, may not be very effective, and may backfire. Be willing to allow him to be right about some things. Otherwise you'll lose him.
He is a novice, and may be excited.
Make it plain that, no matter what, you'll always be there for him, or her.
Be willing to listen.
As a final resort, tell him that the organization is corrupt and is not properly applying the "tech," but that others - outside of Scientology Inc. - are applying the "tech," at lower prices, and in a freer environment.
PS: The piece 'Scientological Onion' is shorter and gentler than the 'Madman?' book, and may be a better choice of reading matter for your loved one.
http://exscn.net/content/view/178/105/index.html