Kerry
Patron with Honors
You can't just go around putting people in untenable situations then say they're totally responsible for the condition they're in...because it begs the question "what about CofS- what about THEIR responsibility?" - Claire
What an excellent reminder. Concerned's wife's husband's not "pulling it in," all by himself if he ever was. Sounds like his sister and boss did a pretty good job. My hubby'd never heard of it. An old school friend pulled/regged him into looking at it in such a heavy-heavy sell at a vulnerable moment in his life. Came back long after he'd left to try to put the squeeze on again. After all is said and done - and there's a lot I'm not saying - the stupid bitch is still too chicken to meet me. She's still in in a big big way.
The other person to "facilitate" his original pull-in, an ex-friend of BADBOP (biggest, affect-deficient bitch on the planet) got in touch with me out of the blue shortly after that painful few months, turns out she'd blown and was a great help to our sit after it was settled. Still great friends with her to this day and often see her and her gorgeous children. Her children were not those of her Scieno partner - who personality-tested Her in during Her vulnerable moment. Etc.
The last post that concerned wife posted here said she was going to talk to her husband.
She hasn't been back - Lulubelle
I hope she is okay. Such a full-on cult town to be in, too.
There are 2 Scientologys. - Alanzo
This is exactly right. I was dealing with someone who was thinking a part of the 1st Scientology could offer some relief. I was feeding him information about the 2nd, eventually gritting my teeth trying to be "pleasant."
If someone can acknowledge the visible (but subordinate, in the Scientological scheme of things) "better parts," while also acknowledging the not so visible (and corrupting), there is a chance that someone, fascinated with only the "better parts," can be reached.
If one is aghast (understandably) at the sheer rottenness behind the displayed part of Scientology, and cites only the rotten part, then the already difficult task of reaching, or influencing, someone who is "in" becomes almost impossible, at least in the short run. - Veda
Beautifully put.
So part of Concerned wife's "mission" is to find out just how deeply her husband has been in with the cult behind her back. It sounds salvageable, but only just. Yeah, I hope she comes back and lets us know how she's doing, but it just might be too hard for her right now, and being in lurk mode may be what she needs. Waving to her if she's reading.