Alright, minor update. Trying to talk about this stuff with her, she quickly doesn't know how to explain it and gets frustrated. She says "you just need to come" to see for myself. Also she doesn't want to tell me too much because she wants me to go in with "an open mind." I agreed to go to an orientation, and then it got cancelled, so we'll see if they reschedule. She also said "it's not scientology" and got defensive. Is that a good sign?
Also, another book appeared in the house- Self Analysis, by LRH.
For blogging dianetics- I thought that sounded cool but apparently it's more time and effort than I can spare right now, sorry.
I think the defensiveness is a very bad sign, personally.
Ask her, if it's not "Scientology", then which organisation runs it? If she says "The Dianetics Centre" then ask where they are incorporated and who their principals are. She is already believing a lie, if she believes it's not Scientology. Ask her, "Are Scientologists expected to go Clear?" If so, what service do they have to take to get Clear? Oh, that would be New Era
Dianetics....
It is complete and utter sophistry, and she's eating it with a spoon.
I wish I had read something like the "Blogging Dianetics" series along with the book. It is just the most excellent analysis of Hubbard's claims, both from a former believer and a hard-nosed skeptic journalist.
I just read the whole Dianetics book with no critical thinking whatsoever - much like the person you're concerned about. Just believed it because Hubbard stated it, despite the fact that he had no qualifications, no background, no published research of his own and no references to the research of others.
He wrote the entire thing in three weeks from start to finish, and the first ever "Clear" was a deliberately perpetrated hoax which left his reputation in tatters.
Also most Scientologists have not even read the books they buy, even though they keep buying more. There is a really good chance that this lady has not even read the whole book also, and is just believing the sales pitches and infomercials.
Anyway, by all means go in for the orientation. I'd be interested to see what you think of the movie, the personality test which doesn't actually test personality (and which will be bad by the way) and their inevitable sales pitch.